ask yourself this... what are you doing to increase your happiness? don't ever expect it to be thrown in your lap. i spent a lot of time and effort learning about people and happiness. i learned about human relationships, our animal origins and how that effects us, dealing with stress, what love is all about, etc. i studied myself and others and read and watched. i was a bit disappointed in what i found out in some areas but that is because like everyone else i was taught that magic is real and happiness and a good life are ours for the taking. but now the puzzle pieces fit. it makes sense. having things make sense is important and it will keep you from feeling lost. but don't expect it all to magically become clear... magic is not real. seek the answers out.